Are you trying to “allow money in” with no results?
I get it because I’ve been there.
Sometimes, all we need is a little tweak, and everything starts to feel better.
Traditional manifestation techniques tell us that we have to “be” the vibration of whatever it is we want to attract.
If you want more love, BECOME loving.
If you want more peace, BECOME peaceful.
If you want more money, BECOME abundant.
This is all well and good, except for when all our previous conditioning, beliefs, and patterns get in the way.
How to think about money in a new way
Instead of doing all the work, I encourage you to try something different.
Yes, you want to remain as open as possible and stay in the state of abundance as best you can.
But here’s something to add to that feeling that will lower the pressure of trying to “get it” and understand that it’s already yours:
Remind yourself that the money you seek is also seeking you!
Boom! Doesn’t that feel better?
Here’s why this is helpful: it lets you off the hook a little bit and helps your nervous system relax and regulate. (Your nervous system is the gatekeeper to everything new you want to let in — if it doesn’t feel safe, you won’t manifest it).
When you decide that all the money you dream of is out in circulation with the intention of finding its way to you, you can enjoy the process more, which is the whole point!
The money you want already exists.
First, it exists as energy — it lives in your consciousness and in your field. It’s real.
Second, it exists physically — as digits on a computer screen or as cash in someone’s hand.
You don’t need to create anything! You don’t need to “will it into existence.” It already exists. That work is done.
Your work is to decide that it’s yours and that it flows to you easily because it wants an experience with you.
If you believe that everything is about consciousness, then money has a consciousness, too. Everything is alive and malleable because everything is energy.
If you really wanted to go on a date with someone, you would want it to be mutual, right? Otherwise, the date would suck or be super uncomfortable. You wouldn’t get the full experience of connection.
So why should it be different with money?
You have a relationship with it, don’t you? I bet you talk to it, plead with it, maybe curse it sometimes if it’s not showing up for you.
That’s a relationship — an ebb and flow between two entities.
So, you need to decide and know that money wants you, too. It’s not a one-way street. It takes two to tango.
Many years ago, I heard Abraham-Hicks say the same thing in a different way: “There is money in this universe with your DNA on it.” Woah. I love that, and I have to agree.
Try this today!
Connect with money and remind yourself that it’s also seeking you. It wants to make your life better, more peaceful, and more secure.
It longs for you like you long for it. Trust this and decide it’s true for you.
When I was growing up in the Catholic Church, prayer was a big part of my life.
If something went wrong in the world, we prayed. If we wanted something, we prayed. If we wanted to avoid something, we prayed.
And guess what? I don’t remember it ever working how the teachers said it would.
Prayer means different things to different people, and it’s a loaded word in the modern world.
As I got older, I realized that prayer had less to do with trying to change an outcome and more to do with feeling gratitude.
After all, when we feel grateful, we vibrate at the frequency that brings us more.
I just learned something from a spiritual teacher I follow about prayer that I had to share.
It falls in line with the gratitude idea, but it’s a little more specific. I’m hoping this will help you, too.
This is how prayer actually works.
In religious tradition, prayer is sold as a way to control outcomes and change circumstances.
In spiritual traditions, prayer has been defined as experiencing the feeling of gratitude, fulfillment, and completion as a way to create more of that.
This 3-step method I’m sharing with you will catapult your results and have you seeing magic throughout your day.
First things first: prayer is not about a request for something you don’t have. It’s a present state of gratitude. It’s recognition of what you already have.
The next time you want to pray, follow these 3 steps.
1. Acknowledge what you have (not what you don’t have).
2. Appreciate what you have — presence with your current abundance.
3. Allow what needs to come next.
These 3 steps create a state of being that says, “I’m good, and I have everything I need right now.”
That state of being is what gets broadcast to the quantum field, reflecting more of that goodness back to you.
When you pray for something you don’t yet have by acknowledging that it isn’t here yet, you recreate that experience for yourself: an experience of not having.
This is where many people get tripped up, especially when they want to manifest something new.
Creation is about acknowledgment of its existence, not the lack of it.
If you want more money, acknowledge and appreciate the money you have right now (even if it’s one penny!) and then allow what needs to come next for that money to expand.
For this example, what needs to come next might be bumping into a friend who offers you a job, hearing intuition that says to take a walk, and finding a $100 bill on the ground, or being brave enough to answer an email from a potential client.
Prayer is not about struggle; it’s about peace.
Making this simple shift will not only feel better but also deliver results.
Remember: everything you desire is about a feeling and a state of being.
This method helps you stay in the feeling so you can create more.
If you need further guidance, I have a variety of coaching and support options.
I’m truly living in a state of abundant bliss right now.
After years of struggle, frustration, and striving, I’m finally experiencing a flow of prosperity that’s giving me chills.
But it wasn’t easy to get here. If I’m honest, it was brutal, heartwrenching, and pretty terrifying at times.
Becoming a new version of yourself requires grit, determination, a deep connection to your “why,” and, above all else, consistency.
Below, I’m sharing the three consistent actions I took to ditch my past beliefs and settings, uplevel my perception, and start walking as an abundant be-ing.
Action #1: I heal and work with my nervous system.
The safer you feel = more abundance.
Before I started working with my nervous system settings, my manifesting felt frustrating.
That’s because I didn’t realize how important it is for your body to feel safe receiving what you’re asking for.
If you want more money, but your nervous system sees that as a threat because of an experience it stored, you won’t be able to receive that money. Or, you’ll receive it and instantly lose it, spend it, or won’t know how to hold it.
This information was life-changing for me.
I was too focused on mindset work, which only encompasses 20% of the information we process. The rest of the information is stored in the nervous system.
When you include nervous system regulation in your practice, you’ll start seeing more results because you’re recalibrating your safety settings.
And when you feel safer letting in more, you’ll start to take new actions and notice new opportunities.
Here’s what I do every day for my nervous system:
Check in with my current state — am I in ventral, sympathetic, dorsal, or a combo?
Breathe and release any tension so I can return to ventral (safety setting)
Use somatic exercises to connect with my body and feel safe — humming, swaying, wringing out my wrists, etc.
Remind my nervous system that it’s safe to receive new things and take one small action to reprogram my body
There is so much to know about the nervous system and its connection to manifesting, so I’ve linked a few previous blogs below.
If you want some hands-on nervous system help, Your 60-Day Manifestation Journal has an entire section on the nervous system and how to include it in your manifesting practice. Grab it on Gumroad HERE.
Check out these blogs for more detailed information on the nervous system:
Action #2: I started setting boundaries — verbal and nonverbal.
When your energy is scattered all over the place, it’s challenging to focus on creating your desired reality.
Enter boundaries.
Now, boundaries are a challenging topic for most of us because our culture defines love as being available to everyone.
Your nervous system is also always seeking connection with others, so for a lot of us, setting boundaries may feel rude, mean, or cold-hearted.
But boundaries are how you’ll leap from surviving to thriving. And the more you do it, the easier it gets!
The more I set boundaries (and admit to myself that I even need them!), the more I’m able to receive. Why? Because boundaries create space for us. And when there’s more space, you can attract more of what you truly want.
There are verbal and non-verbal boundaries, and you should incorporate both.
An example of a verbal boundary would be telling someone you’re unavailable without the need to explain yourself, while an example of a nonverbal boundary would be taking the time you need to respond to a text or email.
Boundaries are powerful and should be used often because they protect your energy, time, resources, and sense of autonomy.
You’ll also feel more powerful, aligned, and self-connected, which is a great recipe for manifesting more.
If you need help setting boundaries, book a call with me below.
Action #3: I started being nicer to myself.
Self-love is alchemizing.
Self-love is magnetizing.
Self-love is energizing.
When I started being nicer to myself, ditched self-criticism, and truly saw myself as worthy of my own love/compassion, a deep shift occurred in my manifesting abilities.
Here’s what no one talks about: when you manifest something, what you’re truly experiencing is self-connection. That’s what we all want.
We all want to come home to ourselves (I discuss this further in my book, which you can learn more about HERE), and feel that sense of inner intimacy.
Because YOU ARE THE UNIVERSE! You want to know yourself as that. THAT is why we want to manifest anything — to experience ourselves as the all that is.
You want that rendezvous with yourself. It’s not about the money or the relationship or the car — it’s about feelings and states of being.
Falling in love with yourself is your fastest ticket to experiencing more material expressions.
Because everything you desire is about a self-perception of what it would feel like to “be that person.”
Start today! Notice what you say to yourself or how you criticize yourself. Then, create some affirmations to replace those old thoughts and perceptions.
Here are a few ideas to build self-love:
take yourself out on a date
start a hobby that’s just for you
treat yourself to something beautiful (like flowers or a plant)
make a list of all the qualities you like about yourself and read it every morning
treat yourself the way you treat someone you love — you’ll notice how much you give to others, but cheat yourself out of your own affection
Treating yourself with love and compassion will carry you far away from your current reality into the life you truly want.
If you need help calling forth your self-love, I have a bunch of self-led products on Gumroad you can check out below:
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WORK WITH YOUR NERVOUS SYSTEM and manifest more!
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I offer a variety of coaching and spiritual services to help you uplevel, understand your patterns, and create the life you’ve been dreaming about. These calls focus on nervous system recalibration, mindset work, and spiritual healing so you feel powerful as a Creator.
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